When you meet someone new and sparks fly instantly, it can feel magical — late-night talks, constant compliments, and the feeling that you’ve finally found your person. But when the whirlwind moves too fast, it’s worth pausing to ask: Is this real connection — or love bombing?

Falling in love should feel exciting — but not overwhelming. If your new romance feels like it’s on fast-forward, take a breath and check in with yourself. Real love grows in steady, safe spaces, not under pressure. But love bombing is when someone showers you with affection, attention, and gifts to gain control or manipulate your emotions. Remember: You deserve a relationship that feels calm, mutual, and real.